PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN CURE -COVID 19

Everyone’s health and safety comes first in the times when everyone is going paranoid.

I was down with flu for the past two days,and my head gave me all the red signs and I ,on purpose decided to stay away from human touch and social things to safeguard the people around me.The hullabaloo is real and gets you crazy because it is a situation to be worried about.

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I’m not here to scare you with what is happening or what is going to happen.

Just here to remind you a few things!

Stay calm and visit doctor even if it is just a flu,but visit the doctor even at the sight of cough,cold,fever or other symptoms.

Maintain at least one arm distance and try to avoid human contact. Do it for others! Do not be impractical! Do not step out as it might increase the chances of transmission.

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Add natural and healthy things in your diet.Meet people with namastey or Aadab and say no to hugs and handshakes!

Sanitize and wash your hands as much as possible. Be Bunty!

Stay at home ! Do not step out of its not necessary. Government is shutting down places for a reason and not so that people can take it as a vacation and enjoy!

Make web series and web shows with your family and best friends!

Use masks if you are down with cough,cold or are with someone with similar symptoms. In rest cases, there are chances that the virus must sit on your mask and make things difficult. 

Stay indoors!

OUR LIFE IS A MESS

Our life is a mess!

Aren’t we all made up of all the mess we have done and faced in our life?

With broken hearts and cultured minds,we roam around like nothing happened!

With broken smiles, we show the world that we are fine!

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With grieves in heart,we wear our heart on our sleeves and try being happy around.

With a chaos-ed mind,we try to bring peace in someone’s life.

Our soul is dented,our mind is fouled ,our heart is screwed; but despite all the mess, our life goes on.

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The mess in us makes us more vulnerable,and the happiness we spread despite the mess makes us more human.

No person has a perfect life.we all go through hard times,we all have a difficult past or present. We all are the same with different struggles.

We all are a mess ; the mess that makes us human and help us deal with the uncertainty of life!

MISSING HUMANITY

Shutting your eyes does not mean the world will turn into a place you see in dreams.

The dreams too can be nightmares at times!

There is no escape from reality, no matter how far you run from it.

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This is no more a world where people will respect you for your emotional stance.only being a practical ass works here now.

Your dreams,your emotions,your sentiments do not hold any value; if you cannot offer the similar assistance to people with you .

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The world now works on barter rather than kindness. First they evaluate what they got from you and then reciprocate the same.

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Every relation is more like a business deal now; evaluating the pros and cons and then signing it.

The feeling of love and care is used recklessly making fun of the emotional structure we live for.

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We are no more humans with hearts! We have turned into robots with brains!

HAPPY HOLI

I am fond of the festival of colours,Holi 

I do not know if anyone can relate to me or not but I love the idea of colours and meeting everyone and dancing all day long. It is such a happy, positive feeling to me. 

I know there will be lots of Holi outfit tips and makeup tips and colour removal tips online, so I won’t bore you with all this. I will rather talk about some real things and tips that I believe people must follow this Holi!

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Do not harass anyone , neither men or women.

A no means a No ; if someone is not willing to play , do not take it on your ego and force them.

If you find someone harassing the other person , be strong enough to stop them 

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Do not harm any animal . They do not love your colourful game. And the chemicals can be dangerous for them.

Try and avoid the use of water. It will help you get the colour off your body easily and also helps the nature.

Please spare the beverages! Do not use eggs, tomatoes or drinks to play Holi.

There are people who do not get enough to eat.

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This is not the festival to get in touch with the girl you like.spare them the horror.

Avoid all those local colours that leave you silver , golden black or god knows what. They are not gonna work great for your skin.

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Create a safe environment around you, so that people find it easy to enjoy;because Holi is for everyone to celebrate .

Go organic ! This idea has been stressed enough !

Do not make a ruckus out of festivity.

Being a little careful can make this Holi a memorable festival for people, animals and nature around you .

Play safe ! Stay safe!

Happy Holi !

LIFE IS UNPREDICTABLE

Life is unpredictable!

You never know how your life is gonna change in the very next moment. 

Just a turn around, and you might lose or gain something.

Jus a message or call can bring you a lot of happiness as well as sadness.

Every moment you live defines your life 

The mental pressure or peace defines your life 

We are made of the moments we live 

If a person is rude there has to be a reason for it .

There has to be history to it. There has to be something that bothered him/her to reach that point 

If a person is sane there has to be something that got him peace.

Everything has a reason and impact 

The unpredictable nature of life is no less than a butterfly effect !

HAPPY HOLI

I am fond of the festival of colours,Holi 

I do not know if anyone can relate to me or not but I love the idea of colours and meeting everyone and dancing all day long. It is such a happy, positive feeling to me. 

I know there will be lots of Holi outfit tips and makeup tips and colour removal tips online, so I won’t bore you with all this. I will rather talk about some real things and tips that I believe people must follow this Holi!

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Do not harass anyone , neither men or women.

A no means a No ; if someone is not willing to play , do not take it on your ego and force them.

If you find someone harassing the other person , be strong enough to stop them 

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Do not harm any animal . They do not love your colourful game. And the chemicals can be dangerous for them.

Try and avoid the use of water. It will help you get the colour off your body easily and also helps the nature.

Please spare the beverages! Do not use eggs, tomatoes or drinks to play Holi.

There are people who do not get enough to eat.

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This is not the festival to get in touch with the girl you like.spare them the horror.

Avoid all those local colours that leave you silver , golden black or god knows what. They are not gonna work great for your skin.

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Create a safe environment around you, so that people find it easy to enjoy;because Holi is for everyone to celebrate .

Go organic ! This idea has been stressed enough !

Do not make a ruckus out of festivity.

Being a little careful can make this Holi a memorable festival for people, animals and nature around you .

Play safe ! Stay safe!

Happy Holi !

I AM THE HERO OF MY STORY

I’m the hero of my story!

Believe in yourself and you are halfway through the journey already.

I’ve been a girl who was known to have big and usually unrealistic dreams. I used to live in my own world where everything was big , happy and I was the hero.

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Everyone laughed when I told them what I want in life. How I actually wanted to become as a human being.

Until I realised , DREAMS ARE SUPPOSED TO BE BIG, THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO BE UNREAL .

They help you get out of your comfort zone, demand to be worked for.

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Time and again I keep reminding myself that I’m that hero and everything I want can be mine if I work for it and pray for it. And the process of this realisation is impromptu.

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The person I am today has a firm belief that whatever I want, I will pray for it , I will work for it and I will definitely get it .

MOMENTS

Somethings are meant to be cherished in life,forever. They might seem small and mundane to you but imagine the depth of these little things:

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Sleeping next to your mom or your mom helping you get sleep!

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Hugs from dad 

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Fighting with your siblings over something and then being ready to give up your candy or anything for them!

Listening to your grandparent’s stories or helping them up with chores!

Helping your best friend dress up for their big day!

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Simply sitting with your friends and blabbering 

Your mom making your favourite food.

Your dad scolding you and then helping you out with the same thing!

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Randomly smiling at your brother or sister to irritate them!

Hugging your friend when they are low, and then teasing them back to loosen up the atmosphere!

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Sitting in silence with your partner and just being thankful of their presence.

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Aren’t these moments the ones that makes your heart and soul happy and yet you choose not to acknowledge them as something really grand?

I know there are lots of such moments that we cherish and treasure.

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Come on! Help me list them down. What are your smallest moments that make your heart happy?

SILENCE

Silence is the most underrated blessing. Though it is a two way sword, have you ever thought how silence can be pleasing but really hard to find. It might seem too easy to find but do we really manage to find silence? 

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Does shutting down devices ,be it TV or mobile or any other gadget really bring in silence?. You might turn off everything causing noise but can you turn off your mind creating the most noise in your life ? The external noise can be shut down but what about the inner mental noise that doesn’t actually give you peace?

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Being a person whose brain works constantly even while sleeping,it is hard for me to find silence even when the physical world I live in is silent.

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I am an over thinker, even while posting something, there is a constant battle in my head where one motivates me to go on while the other side asks me to stop,thinking it might induce some unwanted situation.

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Not just this,there are so many things making the mental noise loud enough that I find it hard to shut down and take my two minutes of silence. And I’m sure we all have been in this. We all have our own worries and issues,not letting us seek our moments of peace and silence.

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Silence is indeed a blessing. A blessing that you need to seek within you rather than trying to shut down the world. The external silence can never bring you peace if there is a turmoil within you.

So value your 2 minutes of silence.

THOUGHTS BECOME ACTIONS

I have talked a lot on how some days it is hard to get your brain working.

There are days when my brain won’t stop talking and giving a perspective about everything, and I would be like , Damn! I need to write about this. And then there are days when my brain would go like, “shut up, you little creature. Stop forcing me! Even when I give it an idea to think about .

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How strange it is that our head,despite being a part of us does not allow us to hold a control over it. It is usually the other way round. Atleast in my case , my head rules over .

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And it is even more strange that despite knowing how our head has its own brain and doesn’t let us rule it,we still let others rule over us.

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We still give others the power to rule us,command us, and sometimes berate us. We still choose to give our freedom in the hands of others. We still choose to be slaves.We still let others decide for us. We still allow others to control our lives . But why ?Till when ? For what ?

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How long will it take us to be firm as our brain?

How long will it take us to free ourselves from all the factors forcing us? How long will it take us to get our freedom back ? 

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Be like your brain! The way your brain does not let you rule him/her, do not let anybody else rule you.

You brain knows what is right for him/her, same way learn to know what is right for you .

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The day you hold control of you is the day you become stronger! 

MAKE YOUR DREAMS REALITY

I am a dreamer!

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We all have dreams . Some dare to follow them while others wait for the day they can start with their dream .

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Remember how we were as a child ? Everyday we had something different within us . One day we wanted to be a teacher , the other day a doctor, the other day a pilot and what not ?

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And those dreams did not die with”I want to be this “. We had the dare to practically implement them. I remember mixing coconut oil with powder and calling it my medicine for all problems and deciding on to be a doctor.

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The other day , I remember going to the terrace and teaching my invisible students the chapters from my books and drawing things on the walls as if it was a blackboard; because that is when I wanted to be a teacher after growing up .

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Similarly I thought of being a master cook while playing with my kitchen set and also considered myself a pilot playing with toy aeroplanes and also thought of taking badminton as a serious profession while knocking the colony friends and daddy down .

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That time , we had the dare to dream !we had the dare to give our dreams a try ,even if it meant teaching non existing students.we had the valour to try on things and dream big.

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We all dream of things even now but probably with the growing of age, the confidence to give those dreams a try step aside . We are so bound with society,with our responsibilities,that we do not dare to take a step towards our dream.

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I guess the kid in us has always been more confident than the adult us.

LOVE

Ok I’m writing this specially for people who feel they are lonely,who often get depressed thinking they got none to show love and get it in return and to those who think solitude is a curse.

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Lemme tell you , being alone is a blessing . Yes I agree to the point that we may feel bad,cry without a shoulder, long for love but all that we need is out there in form of nature .

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In my opinion,I strongly believe that God has created animals as a human companion. The love you need can be got from them. Jus feed a puppy a day and see it’ll follow you for lifetime . That’s the kind of faith and loyalty animals can give you . Then why need humans.

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Feel anxious !!ok get up,refresh yourself,move out , talk to strangers, get some sunlight,have an energetic drink,run,walk,play,roam,dance,capture moments, learn life cos the truth is no one is permanent.

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Truth is people can travel with you ,be it your soulmate,your friends and your family but they can never be with you all the time.

BE STRONG

Stop being a cry baby !! Why do you cry over every single thing?

Oh god! Do not get started again .

Stop irritating , I’ve heard it over and over .

You know what ? You should do this/that!

We are familiar with this. We all have cried in our lives and we all have said these lines too. We might have even made fun out of people who happen to cry easily but how right do you think we are ??

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The cries and talks in front of us might be the early stage of depression for someone else.

This might be thier way to open up and get across the atrocities they are mentally dealing with.

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This might have taken them so long to muster the strength to open to us . There would be So many times they would have been dreadful of the idea of sharing.there would  be so many nights they would’ve cried to sleep because we decided to shut them up.this would’ve added more to their suffering.this would’ve broken them from inside . This would have silenced them down even more , probably affecting thier self love and confidence.

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Nobody likes to cry. And if a person is doing so then imagine how broken they must be from within.they don’t need our suggestions or recommendations. All they need is someone to hear them out .All they need is a little compassion , a little understanding.

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We all are ready to put stories asking people to reach out incase of help,incase of anxiety or depression, but are we really  up for it ? 

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Had we been more considerate about the people around us and their feelings , I think there would be a less need to put pretentious “reach out” status .

BLOOPERS

I don’t know about you people but I love to watch bloopers of the shows or movies I watch. They are so much fun and bound to put a smile on your face and this made me realise that mistakes are important in life.

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Mistakes are a part of process. Certainly repeating the same mistakes might piss you off at the moment,you might want to scratch your head and pluck each and every strand of your hair at that moment but once you surpass that , the joy later is delightful.

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The way we enjoy watching bloopers is because we learn how one should always be open to mistakes and yet work hard to grow over that .

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This way you will learn. And also in the end you will have a memorable experience with some crazy mistakes and a masterpiece in hand . So don’t get afraid going wrong . Don’t get afraid to fail because at the end of the day it’s only your mistakes that will make your journey successful and satisfactory 🙌🏻

BREAK THE CHAIN

Why is it that if a girl has attained something or set a bench mark , she is being considered lucky to have a supportive father or husband .

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Why is it that a girl always need to take permission from either her father or husband or any male in her life?

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Why is it that a girl has to take permission?? And if not permission at least support from the men in her life ?

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Why is getting support from father or husband being considered lucky ? Why is a males support such an important thing ?

Shouldn’t it be the most basic thing ? Shouldn’t it be a thing we do not even have to ask for ?

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Why do we need permission?

What is the need to seek approval in the first place?

Why can’t we be on our own damn selves ?

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Why is this patriarchy where even the most basic right to live on your term N conditions is considered to be lucky because , wow ! The male in your life has allowed you to live on your own terms !

Congrats ya.

So lucky !

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Why ??

PS. No question on men , it’s abt the society .

NEW YEAR RESOLUTIONS

Do you believe in new year resolutions 🤪???

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With the start of new year , everyone around starts to post about their resolutions and talk about the same. I do not believe in resolutions. I feel like why to take up something that you cannot finish ?

Somewhere mid way we all often forget about the resolution made  or think , Ek cheat din tho ho sakta hei...which actually turns into cheat year . And I believe there is no point to it .

I don’t wanna talk or brag about the things I know I might lose touch in between. I don’t wanna the trend or wave to hit me and just to look supercool , make false promises to myself .

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I want to be honest atleast to myself . I don’t wanna burden myself with another baggage (society already puts so much on us) . I don’t want to end the year with a guilt that I couldn’t keep up the resolution made . I don’t like putting unrealistic pressure on myself just to follow the social  Trend.

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So I say NO to resolutions for myself. 

HAPPY NEW YEAR

A day from now , we are entering into a new decade. 2020 to 2030 . A new decade in which we would be completing our studies , getting married , having children , getting settled .

Deep !!! Yeah . This new decade starts with the end of our childhood. Jus a 90s kid lamentation.

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2010-2020 has been a life changing one . Started the decade with my primary school and now here I am as a budding thinker, analyst, ameteur and a pragmatist yet named jobless cos am not being paid .

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I am the person I am now ,only cos of the knowledge I gained and maturity I attained. In my opinion, we gain maturity each day . It’s only the experience we go through that teaches us how to live life. . 

From being a child who goes to school carrying her lunch box not knowing what the future might bring to being a woman who is now running towards the next phase of life thinking of nothing but how to make money cos back then money wasn’t everything but now without money u are nothing . This entire decade taught me the best lesson . .

I’m now walking into 2020 with a clear heart and mind 

If you owe me , don’t worry about it , you’re welcome .

If you ve done wrong to me , no worries , lesson learnt .

If you are angry with me , you won , let it go .

If we aren’t speaking , it’s cool ,good luck .

If I’ve wronged you , I apologise , I am sorry . . 

Cheers to 2020 ❤️❤️

HOLD ON

I don’t know if this is what I wanna hear or this is what we all wanna hear ! But there are many amongst us who need this . It’s time to relax , to zone out and be on your own, you need it .

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It’s okay to take your time 

It’s okay if you don’t wanna be a part of the mundane routine .

It’s okay if you don’t have a normal “9 to 5” job . Not everyone is meant to fall in the rut .

It’s okay if pple around you are travelling all the places .

It’s ok if your friend or cousin or anybody is earning more than you .

Not everyone is wired to be same and not everyone on the planet is destined to do the same thing .

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This is shit to idiolize the 9 to 5 job . You wanna do it then go for it and if you don’t , do not !!!

Trust the process . Trust the pace !trust yourself ! Trust the vibes !

Don’t fall into peer pressure and the society’s sadistic norms .

Work for yourself even if the process is slow,you are bound to end up in a happy place . Just hold on !

LIVE THE MOMENT

We live in a mortal world where everything comes to an end (either by death or some other reasons ). We who claim about future , who talk abt definite things ; actually don’t know what could be the last 

I don’t know why but I do spend my time thinking about ,”when was the last time I met this person”or “I wish I knew that was the last time” 

We do not know when we are going to meet a person for the last time or talk with them for the last time .

We don’t know life. Life is uncertain .sometimes we lose people or relations owing to differences while sometimes life has its own run.

The one thing I learned for sure is to never leave things on a bad note.

If you are fighting over phone , calm yourself up and mend things up even if u have to make the first move . Do not jus hang in there.this could be ur last interaction.

If you are meeting someone , do not leave being mad . Sort things out.even if for 5 mins before going , appreciate the person s presence in your life.

If you are home that is not enough ! Do not think that “I’m home means I’m with my family “ . Be practically and mentally there . Spend atleast some time with your family daily. 

Mend things with people befor it’s too late .Appreciate someone’s presence so that you do not have to sit n think years later that what was the last time I met with so and so !

Life runs in its own course! You don’t know what the other second holds, so hold the moment you are in. Hold the person you are with at that moment . Be nice to pple❤️believe me this will make u a lot better as a person and save you from a lot of guilt 

BE CONFIDENT

Belonging to a small town , I grew up wearing clothes from local shops and not from the high end brands ; thus making me a person who does not go behind a tag or label to buy clothes .

I believe in buying clothes tat makes me feel comfortable even if it is from a local shop or any flea market.

I see , I like, I buy is the process I follow . I guess small towns teach u a lot and this is one of the lessons I learnt.my small town taught me that being brand conscious doesnt define fashion but it’s ur confidence and comfort with clothes that defines your fashion. 

My small town taught me not to judge people based on the labels they carry , it taught me tat buying from small shops doesn’t make u less fashionable,and it taught me tat clothes should never be a parameter to judge someone .

WAIT FOR YOUR TIME

For everyone who cannot see a clear future, to everyone whose future is a blur.

I ve gone through that phase too.i am sure we all have gone through that phase.we all have felt related to the memes quoting ‘ XYZ is brighter than my future’ but u know however relatable that meme could be u will always feel this even if you are the most successful person in life .

Initially even I used to feel that there is nothing I have no clue on where to go , what my future holds and everything is blur. But now I’ve realised tat no matter how far we are clearing out things we are always gonna feel the blur because this is our future and no one holds wat the future holds.

If u are down make up ur mind cos u got 100s of opportunities on ur way . Whereas having a cleared vision jus gets u to tat one opportunity and blurs our the 99 on the way . 

I know having a focus is good but I would rather suggest u to focus on ur present not stressing way too much about ur future cos tat way u will have a clear present and adventurous future .

Blurs are not bad always!! But do not let em make ur present a mess.